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I love your site. Keep it up !
well I’m really glad I’ve found this site and I’ll read it over the next few days when I have time.
I’ve been through a rehab, gone through AA, and all the rest. I have a real beef about AA to be honest. I knew from the moment I walked in there there was something about it that I would never come “around” to – and it wasn’t the abstinence thing.
The truth is I refer to myself as an alcoholic but still drink on occasion. The biggest thing for me was being around people who were abstinent was if you fall off the wagon I just threw the baby out with the bathwater and got plastered, because why not, it was no worse than not. Then I moved into a house where I was dumbfounded to hear my roommate had been in AA for 2 and a half years, and walked out. He drinks about 12 beers a week.
Anyway I’ll keep you posted
Thank you to HAMS. I was desperate a while back to quit alcohol. I was experiencing withdrawal during the day–anxiety, shaking, high blood pressure spikes, etc. This was not my first taper. Thanks to HAMS, I successfully tapered several years ago using beer. After several months of abstinence, I started to drink again only on weekends for about a year and then every night for the next year and a half. In the meantime, I started experiencing some symptoms similar to the earlier withdrawal, and started taking Ativan to calm them, while at the same time tapering again with beer. I was successful, but then needed to taper the Ativan. I got down to 0.145 mg/day of Ativan, but again started drinking mainly in the evenings. I ended up updosing the Ativan to about 0.250 mg/day. I did quite well for about a year. No symptoms whatsoever, and I was able to drink several nights a week. The reason I did not continue tapering the Ativan is because I felt better than I had felt in years and I had many stressful situations for that year including a surgery. I just kept putting it off. Last summer I found out that I was going to start my dream job in August. I was so excited and happy. My husband and I like to go out in the evenings and sit on a patio drinking a few bourbons. We did this almost every night until mid September when the weather started getting cold. I was very happy at work and felt so good physically–better than I felt in years. One day in late September or early October, out of the blue, the anxiety and blood pressure spikes started. This went on for a couple of months (I was drinking about 3 to 5 beers a night). I tapered to 3 beers and then to two beers. The symptoms were getting worse. Stupidly, I upped the Ativan dose to 0.5 mg/day. I did get some relief, but still experienced some of the symptoms. I was still drinking about 2 to 4 beers per evening. Finally, about 3 weeks ago the symptoms just got worse. I have had several panic attacks and high BP spikes daily. In the mix now are hot flashes and a constant nervousness. This was scary. I realized that the alcohol/Ativan mix was causing these symptoms. I was afraid to just cut out the nightly beers, but I knew I had to do something and quickly. Medical detox is not an option for me. Last Friday evening I had the worse panic attack–my heart was racing and BP was up and it took a long time to come out of it. I started tapering the beer again. Saturday, Sunday, and Monday evening I had only two beers each night. By Monday I decided to cut down to one. I increased the Ativan doses a bit so that I could have some relief from the BP spikes and anxiety. I had one beer a night until Thursday. Thursday I drank half a beer, and finally last evening I had zero beers. Today is the first day that I have felt good and certainly much less anxious. I am assuming that since I am feeling better, there should be no danger of withdrawals from the alcohol. I know I have to deal with the Ativan, but for now I will hopefully stabilize some more and then start a very slow taper from the Ativan. I am now up to 0.75 mg/day divided into 3 doses. Today was the first time I could do any physical activity without feeling the shakiness and BP spikes. I know this could change at any moment, but I am so glad that I was able to taper the alcohol. I do not plan on taking another drink for a very long time. Once off the Ativan I would like to be able to have a drink on the weekend or if we go out to dinner, but I will never again drink every night of the week.
Again, thank you to HAMS!!
I am so very glad I stumbled upon your site. I have drank to excess in the past many years, caused myself legal issues in the past, but was fortunate enough to have emerged fairly unscathed. However, I still do abuse alcohol quite frequently. I know I need to cut down, to have zero-drinking days, and to learn to drink only on a full/partially full stomach. Years ago, I chose to go to a 12-step rehab center after getting a DWI. It was helpful in that I met many persons who, like myself, use alcohol to the extreme at times. However, the very premise of AA is that we are “POWERLESS”. Really? if we are powerless, then why bother? It is a paradox. A member may as well say: “I am powerless so I have to work so hard in this program to change my life and my relationships with others because I am so powerless. I must do these steps even if the steps are difficult because I am such a wretch with no hope other than my higher power”. It is circular reasoning. Obviously if you “work” the program, that is utilizing your POWER. Will is personal power channeled. AA is a religion in itself. How can ANY reasonably intelligent person attend these meetings and not have issues with many (most) of the basic tenants? “Your higher power can be the group if you don’t believe in God”. Really? A “higher power” is only as good as the power it has in your life to make a difference. So, AA is not above calling it’s groups “gods”. The arrogance of this movement is laughable. It is amazing how the AA meetings I have attended at different times and different places all seem to have a preponderance of people “reaching out” and “wanting to be a sponsor”. Why? Because whatever drove them to drink too much is still there. AA just gives them a new narcissistic platform from which to perform. “Do the steps, get a sponsor, then one day, maybe even YOU can be a sponsor like me”. I find the entire movement repulsive, illogical, unhelpful, harmful and obviously ineffective. Studies have shown that the rate of relapse from individuals involved in AA are barely better, if at all (depends on the study) from people who don’t attend AA and just slowly cut back on their own.